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NEXT LEVEL DATING

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*Get on the Waitlist now & Stay tuned for the next “Conscious Dating” 6 week program!

 Several years into my Relationship Coaching, I realized something powerful:

“If we learned what dating was actually for and how to do it differently from the very beginning, we’d have a much higher rate of success in our long term relationships!” 

Most of us have learned almost NOTHING in regards to dating before we head on out there at a young age and begin “winging” it.  There’s no “Dating 101” you’ve been able to take, no parents or mentors who seem to have any true skill in this area and your friends are struggling with their dating life as much as you are.  So you’re left refining your process by applying all the negative learning you’ve had (“Don’t let go of my independence next time!” or “Slow down on adding in sex due to the emotional connection it creates!”) and then get back out there, trying your best.

Until you hit a wall.  Until you take too many emotional hits.  Until you begin feeling like maybe it’s just better to be single.

 

Most of my clients who are considering dating again, especially those in their 40’s and older, come to me with a combination of excitement, trepidation and honestly, embarrassment.  These successful women & men quietly share that they aren’t sure why they can’t “get it right” when it comes to dating and relationships, considering they can solve everyone else’s problems so easily! 

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I hear regularly:

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“Dating is EXHAUSTING!”

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“I’m honestly not sure there are any ‘good’ men (or women) left out there.”

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“I keep attracting the same kind of person I DON’T want! WTH?”

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“How do I even know if I’m really ready for a relationship or just lonely?”

 

As a woman who’s been divorced myself, dated in both my 40’s & 50’s and who’s now happily married, I committed long ago to helping teach the “in’s & outs” of healthy, positive, powerful dating so that this process can truly become one of ease and self-awareness for others.  In the end, being capable of REAL Love means becoming emotionally mature!  It’s the lingering immaturity – the uninformed, unskilled old beliefs and mindsets we carry – that keep us in exhaustion, taking things personally and losing self-confidence.

 

My training will give you the expertise you need around foundational pieces, including:

 

  • Why dating is NOT a relationship!

  • How to STOP giving your power away

  • Requirements that are NOT just a silly wish list

  • The “Strong Woman” story

  • Spiritual practices that support this journey

  • ….and much more!

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I’d love to teach you how to have meaningful connections and enjoy the dating process! 

Get on my Waitlist NOW!  Join my next 6 week online group if you’re ready to get “skilled up” and do this dating thing differently! 

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*Also, many people love to put their own group together and have me run the training just for them, either online over the course of 6 weeks for during a full day in person.  Let’s talk!!!

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"Navigating the dating scene in your 50’s feels like being dropped into a piraña tank. After my divorce I was floundering and attracting relationships that were not right for me.  Barb helped me get clear on what I wanted, see how I was attracting what I didn’t want and create an approach that allowed me to feel confident and authentic. Changing how I showed up to dating was key to finding the dream relationship I have now."


— Jennifer Arthuton
Founder & Creater of

Old Chicks Know Sh*t  Podcast
 
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